I Smile at Pain (and so can you)

Yesterday at the gym I thought about something that caused me discomfort. Not a big deal, but something that was a little unsettling. It inspired another thought that made me feel a whole lot better. Maybe it will do the same for you.

Often when I’m thinking - in a relaxed allowing state, free from self recrimination I find the complicated parts of my life unraveling.

I come up on a problem, some part of my present that’s not at ease. I see the error of thought, emotion or behavior. There’s discomfort, maybe even pain. It’s laid out clear as day.

And I smile.

When confronted with the thorny part of their lives many people will furrow their brows, curse their luck and otherwise react negatively. They feel powerless before their problems. They allow themselves to be victims.

I enjoy understanding my problems. Once a pattern makes sense to me, even a bad one I instantly feel better. I can choose to alter that pattern, quickly or slowly. Or I can choose to live with it for the time being and turn my attention to things that are more important to me in the moment.

Or I can even decide to live with it altogether and celebrate my perfect imperfection.

But knowledge is the beginning of power. It’s the gateway we can cross…quickly, slowly or not at all.

When we smile at our pain we honor ourselves and our glorious self-awareness regardless of any other circumstances.

Got some pain? Bless it. See it as a growth experience.

Get quiet and breathe into it.

And watch it magically bless you back.

Your Friend,
Larry
http://NoMoreHoldingBack.com
http://ManifestWithLarry.com

P.S. Please don’t confuse understanding the pattern of pain with sitting for hours on end, trying to understand the “why” of it. That’s the worst kind of hell I know of, and one many counselors are guilty of perpetuating (I’m a certified counselor, so I’m allowed to say that). As I tell my coaching clients, the why’s usually come to the surface…very gently when you surrender the effort to understand.

P.P.S. If you haven’t gotten on my newsletter at http://NoMoreHoldingBack.com yet, this is the right time to do so. Got some groups that will be forming next mont

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Why You Quit On Your Goals, and How To Get Success

Why you have quit and failed on your goals and your resolutions? It’s not that you are lazy, or stupid, or a slacker. It’s that you were not having FUN with what you wanted to do. It’s that you didn’t have a path to get there. It’s that you didn’t have a community to run with. Whether it’s weight loss, fitness, building a business, manifesting or fixing a relationship, or finding inner peace, figure out how to have FUN doing it. Here are some ways to make that happen…

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Heroes and Role Models: Elaina McMillan

This is my tribute to Elaina McMillan, a friend and role model for bouncing back from adversity. Elaina is the co-host of the Sex and Intimacy show with Dr. Neil Cannon. A few months ago she made the choice to start her life over. Now her talent is coming out in huge ways. You’ll be seeing her on television, hearing her on the radio, maybe attending her seminar and buying her hypnosis audios, videos and books. Come find out what Elaina did to make these incredible changes. It starts with the way we think and feel. Amazing stuff!

“Because I Said So”

Some parents convince their young children they have supernatural powers - or at least try to…

“Eat your broccoli.”

“Why?”

“Because I Said So!”

“Clean your room.”

“Why?”

Because I Said So!!”

“Do your homework.”

“Why??”

“BECAUSE I SAID SO!!!”

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These parents want to be omnipotent in their kids’ worlds. They want to speak their words into existence. They want the word to become law.

And sometimes it does. For some, obeying parents without any hesitation is based on fear.

And for others it’s based on complete dependence on the guidance of a mother or father, or both.

And sometimes it’s based on complete trust, love, honor and respect for the person who tells you what to do.

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It can be easy or hard to speak your will into another person. Usually it’s impossible unless it’s a dependent child.

(And if it’s someone other than a dependent child, ask yourself if you really want that kind of power over another.)

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Now let’s get to the meat and potatoes of the matter…

How good are you at speaking YOUR OWN WORDS into existence?

It goes back to the authority and confidence you used when speaking your will into someone else. You had every expectation they would obey…

because you had a complete sense of control and power.

AND (my point)…if you have a sense of control and power over your own life, you find you can speak your own reality into existence.

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“I will attract $20,000 into my checking account this week…because I said so.”

“I will manifest my best time ever running five miles…because I said so.”

“I will create the perfect vacation for my spouse and me, including a great experience for the kids (apart from us)…because I said so.”

There are people who do this as on an everyday basis. Some are famous - such as Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, etc.

Some are underground, quietly living the life of their dreams.They have a partnership with the Universe. It’s as if they’re the parent and the forces around them have such love and regard, they arrange great things for them.

And there are many who have partially mastered this skill and have created wonderful life situations. They’re on their way to achieving that same relationship and having a great time in the process.I’m one of those very people!

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Where are you on the “Because I Said So” spectrum? Do you have the power to shape worlds? Do you have no influence on anyone or anything? Which end of the equation are you closer to?

And…are you interested in figuring out the process of making miracles in your own life…because YOU SAID SO???

Here are five  things you can do this very moment to start speaking your words into existence…

1. Commit to one “Because I Said So” for starters. We tend to bombard ourselves with words and intentions. We mean them when we say them, but have a hard time keeping up. Quality is much better than quality. It lays the foundation for everything that comes after.

2. Create an intention, then get quiet. Let it sink in to your consciousness. Write it out or speak it out loud if you like. Then let it be.

3. Get underneath other people’s intentions. There’s nothing like good energy coming back to you after you’ve been there for others. Celebrate the success of those who speak their words into existence.

4. Accept help. It’s your birthright. We’re humans. We communicate with and support each other. Join a community that is moving in your direction.

5. (As my friend Rich German says) focus on the BEING of your intention. Don’t create from a state of hyper-activity. Become the person who has the FEELING of the thing you want. The people, resources and things you’re supposed to do will show up. Then let them in.

Have a HUGE Weekend!
Larry
http://ManifestWithLarry.com

P.S. The Universe is your partner, not your servant. You have control over who you become. The Universe has control over how you get there.

A Triple Shot of Manifestation Magic!!!

To my NO MORE HOLDING BACK Friends,

Pour yourself a cup of something warm (unless you’re Jack and Alexis in  Costa Rica, in which case you should pour something cool).  I’ve got three things to share with you.  Will take a few minutes, but it’ll be worth it.

1.  MANIFEST MASTERMIND!

What happens when you take your desires…

(not the “gee, I’d like to make some extra money/get healthier/attract a lover/insert your own” desire…

but your WHITE HOT, I’M COMMITTED TO MAKING IT HAPPEN, EVEN IF I HAVE TO STEP WAAAAAAAAAY OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE desire…)

and get serious about picking up the ATTITUDES and SKILLS of people who have already done what you’re doing?

Chances are you wind up aligning with a community that makes that happen.

That’s just what I did.

MANIFEST MASTERMIND.

Tru dat! Brian Campbell and Steve Pohlit are in alignment with the way I think and feel about manifesting the things we REALLY REALLY want. So are the other folks who make up part of the community.

And that’s what it is…. a community of people who dream, share, laugh and learn together…

and then MAKE IT HAPPEN!

Wanna come play with us? Get the free course.

Jump in! The water’s warm!

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2. A CONVERSATION WITH A LAW OF ATTRACTION MASTER

Did you sign up for my conversation with RICH GERMAN?  If you want to know how to create the set of circumstances in your life where you wake up hear the Pacific Ocean crash into the shore, and experience a sense of joy, gratitude and wealth everyday, come listen in on Rich and me.  Rich is co-author of LIVING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION and one of the most respected and sought after trainers in LOA.

Wednesday January 21 at 7:00 PM Eastern.

Details at the FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE

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3. FREE COACHING WITH LARRY

I’ve been mulling this idea over for a while, and now it’s time to do it.

Next Sunday I’m going to offer FREE 15 minute coaching sessions for anyone who would like to get a kick start on making good stuff happen in 2009.

These are going to be focused, intense, meaningful, very brief sessions.

Can you make something wonderful happen in your life in 15 minutes?  If you’re ready, you can do it in five.  But we’ll take a little extra time

Next Sunday, January 18, between 11:00 am and 4:00 pm Eastern time.  Either by phone or Skype.

If you want a “piece of the action” email me at Larry@NoMoreHoldingBack.com.  Include your preferred time and area you’d like help on.  I’ll confirm with you ASAP and send you the information you need.

There’s a BIG world of amazing stuff waiting for you.  Are you ready to follow the path that’s been laid out on your behalf?

Your Friend,
Larry

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Part 1 of 4. Come hang out with Larry Hochman and Colleen McGunnigle as we laugh, carelessly cross Manhattan streets, discuss Law of Attraction and come to some great conclusions about living happily and with purpose.

REPLAY OF TELESEMINAR - 2009: THE YEAR YOU BROKE THROUGH

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Enter in your information if you’d like your emotions tugged on, your senses awakened, your optimism inspired, and your thoughts validated.

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And three people got support and loving guidance that will help them shift around some stuff in the upcoming year.

Go ahead and click.  I won’t tell.

Your Pal,

Larry

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Have a Sparkling Weekend,
Larry

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