Why You Quit On Your Goals, and How To Get Success
Why you have quit and failed on your goals and your resolutions? It’s not that you are lazy, or stupid, or a slacker. It’s that you were not having FUN with what you wanted to do. It’s that you didn’t have a path to get there. It’s that you didn’t have a community to run with. Whether it’s weight loss, fitness, building a business, manifesting or fixing a relationship, or finding inner peace, figure out how to have FUN doing it. Here are some ways to make that happen…
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Your Pal,
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“Because I Said So”
Some parents convince their young children they have supernatural powers - or at least try to…
“Eat your broccoli.”
“Why?”
“Because I Said So!”
“Clean your room.”
“Why?”
Because I Said So!!”
“Do your homework.”
“Why??”
“BECAUSE I SAID SO!!!”
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These parents want to be omnipotent in their kids’ worlds. They want to speak their words into existence. They want the word to become law.
And sometimes it does. For some, obeying parents without any hesitation is based on fear.
And for others it’s based on complete dependence on the guidance of a mother or father, or both.
And sometimes it’s based on complete trust, love, honor and respect for the person who tells you what to do.
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It can be easy or hard to speak your will into another person. Usually it’s impossible unless it’s a dependent child.
(And if it’s someone other than a dependent child, ask yourself if you really want that kind of power over another.)
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Now let’s get to the meat and potatoes of the matter…
How good are you at speaking YOUR OWN WORDS into existence?
It goes back to the authority and confidence you used when speaking your will into someone else. You had every expectation they would obey…
because you had a complete sense of control and power.
AND (my point)…if you have a sense of control and power over your own life, you find you can speak your own reality into existence.
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“I will attract $20,000 into my checking account this week…because I said so.”
“I will manifest my best time ever running five miles…because I said so.”
“I will create the perfect vacation for my spouse and me, including a great experience for the kids (apart from us)…because I said so.”
There are people who do this as on an everyday basis. Some are famous - such as Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, etc.
Some are underground, quietly living the life of their dreams.They have a partnership with the Universe. It’s as if they’re the parent and the forces around them have such love and regard, they arrange great things for them.
And there are many who have partially mastered this skill and have created wonderful life situations. They’re on their way to achieving that same relationship and having a great time in the process.I’m one of those very people! 
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Where are you on the “Because I Said So” spectrum? Do you have the power to shape worlds? Do you have no influence on anyone or anything? Which end of the equation are you closer to?
And…are you interested in figuring out the process of making miracles in your own life…because YOU SAID SO???
Here are five things you can do this very moment to start speaking your words into existence…
1. Commit to one “Because I Said So” for starters. We tend to bombard ourselves with words and intentions. We mean them when we say them, but have a hard time keeping up. Quality is much better than quality. It lays the foundation for everything that comes after.
2. Create an intention, then get quiet. Let it sink in to your consciousness. Write it out or speak it out loud if you like. Then let it be.
3. Get underneath other people’s intentions. There’s nothing like good energy coming back to you after you’ve been there for others. Celebrate the success of those who speak their words into existence.
4. Accept help. It’s your birthright. We’re humans. We communicate with and support each other. Join a community that is moving in your direction.
5. (As my friend Rich German says) focus on the BEING of your intention. Don’t create from a state of hyper-activity. Become the person who has the FEELING of the thing you want. The people, resources and things you’re supposed to do will show up. Then let them in.
Have a HUGE Weekend!
Larry
http://ManifestWithLarry.com
P.S. The Universe is your partner, not your servant. You have control over who you become. The Universe has control over how you get there.
You Don’t Have To Be A Big Player To PLAY BIG!
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THE BACKSTORY…
I wrote a piece that I intended to put out this morning. It started with a woman who had unsubscribed from one of my newsletters and said some not very nice things on the way out the door. Happens from time to time. Short version: she accused me of being judgmental and a bully.
I disagreed. And I wrote an article in response to her note. And I was all set to put it out.
Then I sent it to one of my friends to get a reaction.
I got a joking response - “I don’t think I should go there.”
Well, that’s exactly where I wanted him to go. Otherwise I wouldn’t have asked for his opinion.
It took some teeth-pulling, but eventually I got my answer. Short version: the article was a disaster waiting to happen. He told me to bury it in a deep hole and never let it see the light of day.
So I took another look. And I agreed. Just put down my shovel to write this instead.
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This is not about the other article. It’s about my friend. And it’s about YOU.
The friend who finally came clean wants a strong, leveraged income he can work around his family. He’s not looking to get super rich from his efforts. Some extra money to keep up with expenses and have a little extra at the end of the month for fun would be just super.
He doesn’t want to be the superstar in front of a room of adoring fans. He likes his life the way it is and wants to find a way to keep it intact.
So he’s not looking to be a “Big Player.”
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That really doesn’t matter. Here’s THE THING I want you to understand…
If you’re going to do anything to improve your lifestyle - make money in a business, advance your career, lose weight, gain weight, get healthier, get a sweetheart, fix a broken relationship, etc. - you don’t necessarily have to be a big player.
But you have to PLAY BIG.
I asked my friend to look at that article because I had my own doubts. This is someone whose opinion I respect. I made that clear.
But he was still shy about asserting himself…about expressing the source energy inside that told him he was right…and felt strongly about.
(I know he felt strongly, because the one sentence response I asked for turned into ten paragraphs.)
It’s not about how BIG you want to be. It’s how TRUE TO YOURSELF you want to be.
That’s what the Universe responds to. It’s what people around you respond to.
It’s how you free up your own energy to go out and get whatever you want.
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Got something in your life you KNOW isn’t right? Are you permitting it?
You don’t get to complain about what you permit.
And you don’t get to have success until you unfold all that you are.
Once you do, you get to have as much or as little as you’d like.
Thank you, my friend, for your wise counsel. I learned and grew from it.
Thank you MORE for sharing your authentic, congruent Divine self.
NOW…how are YOU going to free up the inner genius inside?
I have a suggestion (don’t I always?)
Start with MANIFEST MASTERMIND. A new community that Steve Pohlit and Brian Campbell put together for people who are DROP DEAD serious about making good stuff happen. You have access to guides, coaches, and support…from people who’ve already done what you want to do.
Start with the free course: “7 Steps To Manifesting Your Dreams.” CLICK HERE to check it out.
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I’m off to enjoy this glorious Sunday morning. Please make sure you do the same.
Your Friend,
Larry
P.S. “Playing big” has a funny way of taking the toxic people out of your life and replacing them with some really cool ones. It also has a funny way of making money and other resources hunt you down and stick to you. I found out in the greatest of ways. Is it your turn?
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Five minutes long, and worth every second. 
You are in control of how you think, feel and behave…in every situation….
if you choose to be so.
Have a great weekend,
Larry
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Our conditioning is what holds us back from getting the things we want to get and feeling the way we want to feel. It’s basic psychology - nothing more. True for home business people, married couples, career builders and changers, people who want to lose weight, etc. Once we begin to set aside our assumptions and prejudice, new stuff can come in. And I’m glad for that, because I don’t like coffee, but I LOVE my java pop!
Mystery of Manifestation Explained
A Triple Shot of Manifestation Magic!!!
To my NO MORE HOLDING BACK Friends,
Pour yourself a cup of something warm (unless you’re Jack and Alexis in Costa Rica, in which case you should pour something cool). I’ve got three things to share with you. Will take a few minutes, but it’ll be worth it.
What happens when you take your desires…
(not the “gee, I’d like to make some extra money/get healthier/attract a lover/insert your own” desire…
but your WHITE HOT, I’M COMMITTED TO MAKING IT HAPPEN, EVEN IF I HAVE TO STEP WAAAAAAAAAY OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE desire…)
and get serious about picking up the ATTITUDES and SKILLS of people who have already done what you’re doing?
Chances are you wind up aligning with a community that makes that happen.
That’s just what I did.
Tru dat! Brian Campbell and Steve Pohlit are in alignment with the way I think and feel about manifesting the things we REALLY REALLY want. So are the other folks who make up part of the community.
And that’s what it is…. a community of people who dream, share, laugh and learn together…
and then MAKE IT HAPPEN!
Wanna come play with us? Get the free course.
Jump in! The water’s warm!
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2. A CONVERSATION WITH A LAW OF ATTRACTION MASTER
Did you sign up for my conversation with RICH GERMAN? If you want to know how to create the set of circumstances in your life where you wake up hear the Pacific Ocean crash into the shore, and experience a sense of joy, gratitude and wealth everyday, come listen in on Rich and me. Rich is co-author of LIVING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION and one of the most respected and sought after trainers in LOA.
Wednesday January 21 at 7:00 PM Eastern.
Details at the FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE
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3. FREE COACHING WITH LARRY
I’ve been mulling this idea over for a while, and now it’s time to do it.
Next Sunday I’m going to offer FREE 15 minute coaching sessions for anyone who would like to get a kick start on making good stuff happen in 2009.
These are going to be focused, intense, meaningful, very brief sessions.
Can you make something wonderful happen in your life in 15 minutes? If you’re ready, you can do it in five. But we’ll take a little extra time
Next Sunday, January 18, between 11:00 am and 4:00 pm Eastern time. Either by phone or Skype.
If you want a “piece of the action” email me at Larry@NoMoreHoldingBack.com. Include your preferred time and area you’d like help on. I’ll confirm with you ASAP and send you the information you need.
There’s a BIG world of amazing stuff waiting for you. Are you ready to follow the path that’s been laid out on your behalf?
Your Friend,
Larry
